Retirement Regrets: Common Reflections from Professionals
August 8th, 2026
Last Updated on August 8th, 2026
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SUMMARY / KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Surveyed retirees overwhelmingly regret financial choices, not career risks.
- Cornell’s decades-long Legacy Project found that almost no retiree regretted a risk they took; nearly all regretted years spent worrying.
- Time with family, health, and financial planning show up again and again as the regrets that matter most.
What Do Retirees Actually Regret, According to the Research?
Ask people nearing retirement what worries them, and money usually tops the list. In fact, it turns out they are right to worry, though maybe not in the way they expect. A July 2026 survey from the TIAA Institute found that three in four of today’s retirees (76%) wish they had started saving earlier.
Meanwhile, 71% wish they had simply saved more. Numbers like that are a reminder that career planning for uncertain economic times has to include the financial side, not just the professional one.
Notably, the regret goes beyond how much they set aside. Nearly half (49%) wish they had planned for events they never saw coming — a health scare, a layoff, a caregiving responsibility that pulled them out of the workforce. In fact, 51% of retirees in the same survey say they left work for more than a year at some point.
Specifically, that’s due to circumstances they had not planned for. And 47% regret never setting clear retirement goals in the first place, which made everything else harder to plan around. Learning how to future-proof your career, financially and professionally, starts with treating that kind of goal-setting as a habit rather than a one-time task.
Why Is Taking a Career Risk Surprisingly Rare to Regret?
What is notably absent from most of these lists is regret over risks that did not pan out. Cornell University’s Legacy Project has interviewed more than 1,200 older Americans about the lessons of their lives. In fact, it found something researcher Karl Pillemer did not expect.
Almost none of his subjects pointed to a financial setback or a risk they had taken as their biggest regret. What they regretted, almost unanimously, was something else entirely: years spent worrying about outcomes that never happened.
That finding lines up with a broader pattern in the research on finding meaning in your career path. Specifically, the anxiety tends to outweigh the actual cost of the risk.
On the specific question of career, Pillemer expected a generation shaped by the Great Depression to advise playing it safe. Instead, the advice was nearly universal: find work you love and do not worry about the compensation. If a job feels like something to dread every morning, get out.
Life is too short to spend it on something that does not feel purposeful. For anyone treating a stretch of unemployment or a pause between jobs as a failure rather than a reset, that is worth sitting with. We have written before about why career breaks are becoming the new norm rather than a red flag.
Framed that way, finding your next career step after a pause looks less like starting over. Instead, it looks more like continuing a plan that always had room for one.
What Do Time, Health, and Relationships Teach Retirees?
The Legacy Project’s interviews turned up two more lessons that come up again and again. Those are: “avoid the rift,” and “say the important things while people are still around to hear them.” The retirees Pillemer spoke with who described themselves as unhappy were disproportionately people who had a permanent break with a family member.
The ones who described contentment, on the other hand, often pointed to something as simple as showing up. One interviewee described a rule in her family that if one person had a game or a recital, everyone went, no exceptions.
Similarly, health follows the same pattern. Among the professionals TIAA surveyed, essentially half regretted not planning for a health issue, a caregiving obligation, or another disruption. In turn, that disruption often reshaped their working years.
Overall, the lesson is not only about retirement savings. It is also about choosing, while you still have the choice, a career that does not quietly erode your health along the way.
That is part of why it is worth thinking about which professions tend to support mental health rather than working against it. Notably, this matters long before retirement forces the question.
Why Is Retirement Planning Regret Getting More Common, Not Less?
If anything, this kind of regret looks to be intensifying. According to a 2025-26 Advisor Authority study from the Harris Poll and Nationwide, which surveyed more than 2,000 investors, it found that 55% of people who had retired in the last five years had regrets about how they saved.
More than a quarter, 28%, wished they had started earlier, and only 40% said they were still on track with their original retirement budget. Meanwhile, market volatility is compounding the problem.
Half of recent retirees said they had made at least some change to their portfolio in response to recent turbulence. That compares with just a third of retirees who had been out of the workforce longer.
There is one factor that consistently narrows the gap: professional guidance. In the TIAA survey, retirees who worked with a certified financial planner were far less likely to regret being caught off guard by an unexpected life event. In contrast, only 26% said so, compared with 43% among those who went it alone.
Overall, none of this requires guessing about your own future. It just requires treating a plan as something to build early and revisit often, rather than something to improvise after the fact.
It is one more version of the same lesson behind career regrets and how to avoid them. The gap is rarely a lack of options; it is a lack of a plan.
What Does This Mean If You’re Still Working?
None of this is meant as a scare tactic; it is, if anything, useful data. The professionals who look back with the fewest regrets are not the ones who made every decision perfectly. They are the ones who treated purpose, relationships, and money as things to actively manage. That concern is widespread well before retirement, too: according to the Federal Reserve’s most recent survey of household economic well-being, only 35% of non-retirees believe their retirement savings plans are on track.
Instead, they didn’t assume those things would work themselves out. Specifically, that means asking, now, whether the work you’re doing feels meaningful. It also means not assuming a bigger paycheck later will make up for the difference.
Practically, that means having the money conversation earlier than feels necessary. It means checking in with the people who matter before there’s a reason for regret. And it means treating a pause or a change in direction as a legitimate part of a career, not a detour.
Decades of interviews and survey data point to the same conclusion: the regrets that stick are not about the risks people took. They are about the ones they did not, and the plans they never got around to making.
Revisiting that question periodically costs far less than answering it for the first time on the way out the door. That’s especially true when it’s part of finding real purpose in your professional life.
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